Effective Communication?????

Effective communication helps us understand individuals and the situations we encounter daily better as well as builds trust, respect, which contributes to our ability to problem solving, and creates environments that promote creative thinking (Effective Communication, n.d.).  An effective communicator is skilled at being an active listener which include the ability to communicate nonverbally, able to manage stress, as well as have high emotional awareness (Effective Communication, n.d.).  Seems pretty simple right?  But communication isn’t just questions and answers.  Despite how simple communication seems to be, we are often misunderstood by those we are trying to communicate with when our communication skills are not up to par (Effective Communication, n.d.).  Building effective communication skills makes it easier to connect with children, families, friends, colleagues, as well as different cultures.

Some of the cultural differences in communication, excluding language,  are time and space, fate and personal responsibility, face-to-face saving, and nonverbal communication (LeBaron, 2003).  These are the things that I find myself learning and changing how I communicatre with others communicating cross culturally.  I try to be aware of spatial comfort zones and that others may have different perspectives based on the environment in which they were raised.  I also have to consider that my self-image may be viewed differently than I perceive myself.  For example, I may not look old enough to have respect from a cultural standpoint despite my position.  This means at times I must make it clear that I understand what I am being asked and respond appropriately as well as culturally responsive.  It also important that I read nonverbal communication and include this observation in my response, while understanding that some basic body communication may mean something completely different in another culture.  Communication studies have been quite an eye opening experience and I have become even more cautious in my interactions with others and definitely more concise and clear.

References

LeBaron, M. (2003, July). Cross-Cultural Communication | Beyond Intractability. Beyond

Intractability. Retrieved January 27, 2013, from http://www.beyondintractability.org/bi-essay/cross-cultural-communication

Effective Communication: Improving Communication Skills in Business and Relationships.

(n.d.). Helpguide helps you help yourself and others. Retrieved January 25, 2013, from http://www.helpguide.org/mental/effective_communication_skills.htm